Rash's Blog

Rash's Blog

Monday, February 28, 2011

......Do We Rate Our Friends???


                                     "Hi Wish U a Happy World Bestfriend Day .
                                      Send it to all ur Best Friend , even me ,
                                      Hoping I'm one of em . C how many u get Back,
                                      U r very friendly ,if u get seven"



Always Together Not as BEST But only as FRIENDS

     No ...Dont Sweat it , i m not at all requesting u 2 start sending this Baloney msg written above 2 ur supposed best friends ... coz  believe me if even 1 of em is like me he'll be detest this msg, and u know why , because like me he'll also completely dislike the idea of being daubed a best friend , not dat it is bad or a shameful thing ,no it's not even an abuse it's just the idea... the idea of rating ur friends into categories dat make me sick to my stomach. Mesages like the above mentioned are almost a daily intake for me ....and only God knows how many days , in a lunar or egyptian or even a normal calendar , are celebrated by ppl as the Bestfriend Day... i mean c'mon guys if today is world bestfrnd day then sorry bt i already celebrated this day about a hundred times many days ago . But , besides that its completely deranged to rate ur friend and create insecurity among ur other friends . Just go back to ur past and think about it almost every friend of urs must have had stood up for u in some times or the other (and if not may i suggest u start looking for a new creed of friends ) because dats wat basically friends do , they stand up for you , they be there for u when u need em the most , they save u from trouble , they crack jokes on u , make you laugh when u r down , make sacrifices for you , and its not just a particular friend who does these things for u bt all ur friends whoever had a chance does it for u so y create a barrier via a mere adjective of best or worst coz believe me there are always either good friends(Or in the articulation of one so called Barney Steinson...a BRO) or wat we call just an acknowledgment .  Yeah it may hell feel good when one of ur dearest friends call you his Best friend but think how bad it'll ,or for some person it may even had, hurt u wen the one u called ur best makes u just another friend and chooses someone else their Best friend. Remember this ma friends...everybody likes to be the best and nobody wants to be counted among the rest .

    So here i am finishing one of my long thought out blog about wat i feel is a growing parasitic trend dat is feeding away many emotions and friends just wanna make best friends while in reality they forget about almost all of their so called best freinds in their ever progressing lives on the first sign of a new growing relationship . So as i always say i am ready to be proved wrong ,that is if u can , but if u cant prove me wrong than just make a resolution-" to never make another best friend but always make good friends"


[ in the end i will really appreciate ur feedbacks in form of comments and tell me if u will like to see me write any topics coz seriously i m running short of topics and may not write a blog every week]

4 comments:

  1. and very nice thought u've put in words indeed..
    Rash seriously...people have got understand this view...
    Am glad that u've put all the thoughts on their right places and have illustrated every point beautifully..
    I really hope ppl adhere to the right beliefs and make this place a better feel of the right places ppl deserve..
    And not take things the wrong way everytime and make confusions..
    Am happy :-) nice again..

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  2. Actually.. i never gave it a thought dis way.. frnds are frnds.. but yes i have some reservations for people who are really very close to my heart.. but i guess thats ok.. because i have a notion that ppl close to my heart know me better than others..

    but then those are the only ones who are my friends.. and if i have to choose the best among them.. then probably i would refrain..

    ur views will go well with me.. if u dont want to categorize the top notch on ur frndlist.. but if thats for all the frnds.. den i would say NO.. i will certainly have reservations for frnds who are close to me.. and that would never be a single frnd.. i am blessed to have found a lot of people who i can sterotypically call my BEST FRIENDS..

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  3. @rash sorry 4 replyin late....
    had 2 gather few points to scribble....
    well for me der is alwez 3 options,
    1. friend
    2.a stranger
    3.a stranger whom u happen to know
    i made up dat option for myself, actually a friend is one who stands for u wen da whole world is against you... this whole thing bout best frnz doesnt get in my head dats bcoz u cant b judge-mental by few gud deeds by a person dat he's ur best frnd.. i mean in 2days world its pretty stupid..

    i give a question here
    ur standing on the edge of da roof tryin to commit suicide wen 1 comes n says am gonna give away my life wid u (dats da definition of a frnd nwadays) n der is a second one comin frm behind pullin u off da roof n slaps da crap outta u n make u realize life's important...
    nw who is a best frnd... actually both of dem..coz am of da 2nd type while tappu is of da 1st type... watevr it may b, but for me i dnt giv a shit bout a)strangers b)strangers whom i happen to know... i know screwin my frnz n dats limited to very few important people...

    @rash: gr8 work again... dis is an eye opener for da one who rate frnz....
    n lastly hopin arsenal never wins barclays... i cn accept it even if totts do dat bt nt a team headed by FABREG wait 4 it wait 4 it ASS...

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  4. Well I would say, it's sometimes better to rate friends the way Facebook does... ;)
    Acquaintance and all, coz for this world you need them where associations just keep on growing...
    But at the end of the day, after all the associations and all, we in our heart know for whom will we stand up in cases of crisis, blindly.
    And believe that's all that matters.

    If not friends, I can at least rate this article...
    And you mark is...

    (1010101010-10101010)/100000000 out of 10... ;)

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